...because if I don't get angry I'll cry and if I start crying I'm afraid I may never stop.
I turn that anger into action of course and thereby avoid wallowing in self-pity and actually get things done although it is hard.
Currently the conservatory, which should have been completed a year ago, is still languishing in a semi-completed state. The builder claimed the panels he had delivered to finish the job were, "the wrong white." I suspect the truth is he has been a victim of the recession the Coalition has pushed us into and that attempting to balance his cashflow us the real reason for all the delays of the past year.
The insurance company providing Jo's rehabilitation is prevaricating yet again. They are trying to say that the complications Jo experienced over Xmas; the pressure sore and her pulmonary embolism, were pre-existing conditions which are preventing her recovery. The truth is their tardiness in approving a further treatment last year is what increased Jo's immobility and so led directly to the pressure sore and the DVT that caused the clots which lodged in her lungs.
